Many women are ashamed to the point they haven't even told their husband or their boyfriend, or anyone. Some women express no remorse, but the detachment that's required to survive abortion begins to sabotage their closest relationships. In cases they can often begin to sense an inward loathing that makes them feel 'evil' and thereby choose not to get close to anyone out of a fear they may hurt them. Many feel guilty and over-compensate for their living children to try to soothe the guilt. Many men have participated in supporting or bullying women into abortion only to find themselves depressed and harboring guilt or projecting it onto the ones closest to them.


Regardless of your experience and current post-abortion stage, it is important for you to healthily grieve your baby in order to heal.


Post-abortion healing for men and women is available at The Relationship Warehouse through a series of individual counseling sessions with Roxanna, who has experienced the pain of abortion as well as the healing God provides.



post-abortal healing

Abortion is heartbreaking.  As women, we are designed to be strong and tender nurturers, not tough and calculating decision makers.  God designed men to be providers, protectors, lovers, and provide a foundation on which a family can grow.   A person’s soul is not meant to handle life and death decisions that only God has capacity and sovereignty to make.  The pain that follows the decision to end the life of an unborn begins to creep into all relational areas of their life especially the relationship they have to God and to self.  When a human being makes a God size decision that only God has the capacity to make and live with, there is in implosion that begins to occur. 


  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)
  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)