The relationship warehouse ministry serves kingdom servants through the following services.


Servant-Life Assessment


While there are many resources to assist kingdom servants in crisis or with restoration, The Relationship Warehouse has pioneered an evaluation process for the kingdom servant that measures the health of all key ministry relationships to prevent wear-out, burn-out or behaviors that disqualify. The Servant-life evaluation examines three primary areas:


  • Minister’s family relationships and dynamics
  • Individual physical, emotional and spiritual health and life practices
  • Ministry setting relationships and expectations

Upon completion of the Servant-Life Evaluation process participants will receive a comprehensive report with affirmations and recommendations to maintain healthy and effective roles and relationships.


Minister’s Family Counseling
Ministry is tough on families. Often we do not even realize the toll taken upon on spouses and children. When symptoms of pressure surface it is essential to take a look at family dynamics and discover how to change course to serve our first calling- our family. The Relationship Warehouse has tools to assist spouses and children with understanding and communicating needs that may have overlooked or neglected. We are here to serve and support kingdom leaders.  


Kingdom Servant Restoration Track
It is tragic when kingdom leaders wear-out, burn-out or have a moral lapse. The Relationship Warehouse seeks to restore health to individuals and family systems to kingdom service through mentoring partnerships with local churches and leaders. The scope and duration of restoration tracks are determined by an interdisciplinary assessment team comprised of seasoned ministry leaders.


Ministry Vocational Coaching
Drawing from the resources of veteran ministry leaders from a wide spectrum of ministry roles, The Relationship Warehouse assists individuals in discovering the area of kingdom service that is the best suitable match for individual giftedness, passion and calling.



  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)
  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)
  • Servant-life wellness assessment

    Servant-Life is a tool to strengthen the Kingdom of God because…
    90% of pastors work more than 46 hours a week
    80% believed that pastoral ministry affected their families negatively
    33% said that being in ministry was an outright hazard to their family
    75% reported a significant stress-related crisis at least once in their ministry
    50% felt unable to meet the needs of the job
    90% felt they were inadequately trained to cope with ministry demands
    70% say they have a lower self-esteem now than when they started out
    40% reported a serious conflict with a parishioner at least once a month
    37% confessed having been involved in inappropriate sexual behavior with someone in the church
    70% do not have someone they consider a close friend.
    ​(Survey of Pastors Fuller Institute of Church Growth)


  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)
  • The couples complete a questionnaire ahead of their arrival, along with individual inventories (Taylor Johnson Temperament Analysis) and individually written life stories from childhood to current day.  Some cases may not be accepted for the intensive right away.  Occasionally there needs to be some time lapse between first noticing there is an issue and both parties being ready to step toward solution together.  We will commit to praying for you during this time until God makes ready. 
  • Secure a team of intercessors we can communicate with before, during and after your intensive weekend.  Please select true intercessors, not family members and best friends.  (please see attached page for guidance in this area.  If you do not have access, we will secure intercessors for you from our ministry resource team.  Confidentiality is of upmost importance in your selections)